Connecting through prayers

18 November 2009 at 05:55 5 comments

By Jeremy Lapedis, KF9, Guatemala

I’m Jewish, but, before every meal at Manuel’s house, we say a prayer thanking Jesus Christ.  Manuel is the director of FAPE, the MFI where I work in Guatemala, and I have been staying with him since arriving.  He is also a pastor at a BMenorah on displayaptist church.  So I was surprised Thursday night when lifting my head, just after our prayer, I spotted a menorah on display.  What is this doing here?

Manual caught my gaze. “Oh, a friend gave me that.  Do you know what it used for?”  he queried.

I attempted to impart what knowledge I had of the menorah: It was a miracle that the oil burned for eight days, but there are nine candles.  Channukah was the festival of lights.  He listened intently on what I had to say completely fascinated with my every word.  His genuine interest in my religion, in hearing my thoughts, was not something I was accustomed to back home.  How often do we hang onto every word of someone we barely know?

Shortly thereafter, he shared with me what my name meant to him.  That Jeremias was a very important saint.  He taught me a song the he sang at church.  I absorbed his words.  We were not just talking at each other, but having a deep connection. This is what Kiva is all about, making personal connections with people.  Finding things you have in common and learning.  Although Manuel is not a lender nor a supported entrepreneur,  he too likes to make connections while alleviating poverty.   I am glad his organization is the intermediary, facilitating connections.

On Friday night, I baked a challah, and he asked that I say the prayer over the meal.  I started. “Baruch atah Adonai…”

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5 Comments Add your own

  • 1. coambse  |  24 November 2009 at 00:34

    Hey J,

    Great job on what would normally being a tricky situation. It seems like in the developing countries religion is not so nearly taboo. I am glad that the two of you could learn from each other.

    Making connections is what its all about.

    Way to go,
    Ed

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  • 2. Sierra Visher  |  22 November 2009 at 15:45

    Nice post! I am not religious but was taken to a revivalist church by a loan officer and while in the states I might be uncomfortable doing that, the way that this loan officer made me feel was totally different. Despite our difference we connected that night and I felt so validated in my belief in Kiva. Thanks for writing!
    Sierra
    KF6

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  • 3. Gavin  |  22 November 2009 at 06:09

    Jeremy,
    Nice to read. Great connection

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  • 4. Adam  |  19 November 2009 at 01:17

    Nice post, man!!! For me too, this is at the core of why Kiva works.

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  • 5. Jan & John, KivaFriends  |  18 November 2009 at 16:33

    Thanks for sharing that Jeremy. I belong to a Christian group studying a book by Rabbi Rami Shapiro called The Sacred Art of Loving Kindness. Love is the healer in all situations and listening to and hearing each other are the first steps to loving each other and making this world a better place to live for all. jan

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